We are now looking at the 15th July for our wedding. We are currently thinking of a morning ceremony in the 'Octagon Room' at Orleans House Gallery followed by a wedding breakfast (not sure where yet), then an evening do, possibly at York House with, of course, dancing.
Well, we don't exactly keep this blog up to date, but we couldn't let this go by without putting it online.
We are engaged!
So we haven't got a date yet, but we expect it to be pretty soon - probably during the summer. We'll take some pictures of the happy couple, and the ring of course, and put them up here. We'll also try to keep this up to date with any developments (dates, venues and the like)
Haven't posted for ages, so thought I should. I've also updated our current reading - we don't really read that slowly!
I wasn't very well today - first time I've been off work for ages. I slept until 1 o'clock - but I'm still feeling a bit tired now.
We spent last weekend in Bristol. We had a really nice time - we went to see The Incredibles on Saturday - which I'd really recommend - and then ended up in a pub called The Old Duke, which has live jazz every night. We saw a singer called Beth Rowley and her band. The keyboard player was really good, as was the singer. Some really good stuff, including a jazz interpretation George Formby's "I'm leaning on a lampost" - which sounds strange, but was really good.
On Sunday, we saw the 'Earth From the Air' exhibition, and also went up to the Clifton Suspension Bridge, before meeting some friends for a drink, then heading home.
Unfortunately we forgot our camera, so no pictures of our weekend.
This week we've had a couple of pictures framed - one that Damyanti took, and one of an Indian print on fabric. This second one is quite large - don't know where we are going to put that - perhaps somewhere in the corridor.
We've hopefully got a quiet weekend coming up. We've got some Christmas shopping to do. We did buy one Christmas present last weekend - which is probably the earliest I've ever bought a Christmas present - but still quite a few to go, and less than a month before we go to India!
We are also meeting some friends tomorrow in Richmond, so hopefully we should have a nice afternoon.
Well - almost. We've got some stuff that we want them to come back and do, as it seems though they finished off in a bit of a hurry. Anyway, despite this, we love it! Have a look
Our kitchen is almost finished. Hopefully it will be done by the end of tomorrow. It's all very exciting now - can't wait to use the new sink!
We've spent the last few days painting the kitchen, and now it is 'blue lagoon'. We've put some pictures into the 'Decorating' album to show the kitchen before and after painting. We've started to take the same colour through into the hallway, and we think it looks pretty good.
I really feel that once the kitchen is finished (they are coming to fix it on Tuesday, it is currently stacked in our living room) that we will have got the majority of the decoration done - just the two bedrooms, and perhaps a new paint colour in the bathroom, left to do.
After decorating the living room and painting the hallway we have now turned our attention to the kitchen.
We had started talking about the kitchen even before we moved in, and we actually started some serious thinking, and sketching out designs around Easter - so in some ways it seems to have taken us a while to get to this point. However, it all seems to have happened really quickly. We looked in three places seriously - Moben, MFi and Homebase.
It was quickly obvious that Homebase were simply not offering the same service as the other two - and really going to this 'consultation' was a waste of time. The MFI offering looked pretty good, but we decided that the Moben kitchen was what we wanted.
The style is Shaker Maple, with a Butler sink, and a solid beech block work top. At the moment the kitchen is completely bare, as we had it plastered last week. We now need to paint, so we thought we'd take a 'before' picture to remind us.
On Tuesday, 16th March, we finally moved into our new house. I've put some photos of the move online, but we'll try to get some more of the new flat online in the next few days.
The move itself went fine, despite my worries about getting the van loaded (would it all fit? would we get it done on time?). We had loads of help from Damyanti's sister, Ian and Martin to get the van loaded, and by around 10pm on Monday evening, we had loaded the majority of our stuff.
Since I was still worrying about the whole thing, I woke up early on Tuesday. I was aching all over, so the first thing I did was have a bath, before starting to throw out even more rubbish (unfortunately some of the stuff we intended to recycle went into the bin because we just needed to get rid of it).
We were all finished by about 10:30 on Tuesday, so we then took Damyanti's sisters stuff over to her new flat (yes, not content with just one move in a day, we decided to do two), and then basically sat around waiting for the sale to go through.
Finally we got the call about 1:30 to say that money had gone through, and we could pick up the keys. However, the person we were buying from was still in the process of moving out, so we went over, and waited by the van until he had cleared out. So we finally got to put stuff into the house at about 2:30.
I can tell you that unpacking is a lot more rewarding than packing, and seemed easier. Again we had help, this time from Mark, and Nicky came over as well.
The place needs a good clean - I started sneezing almost as soon as we got there. I think it's just dust (hope I'm not allergic to the flat!) I suspect once the dust has settled I'll be OK again. Anyway, we need to give the place a good clean before unpacking all our things.
It also needs decorating. I have to say I thought it was in better condition than it is. It isn't awful, but the sooner we can paint, the better really. We also need to fit lights into the living room and kitchen (he used standard lamps in both), and replace the curtains, and the blind in the bedroom (which was filthy, and broken)
Unfortunately, since I'm away now until Friday, and then we are going to Seattle a week on Monday, we won't have much time to do this before Easter. I'm hoping we can clean, fit some lights, and unpack the majority of our stuff this weekend - we'll see.
I know Damyanti cleaned one of the windows last night, and said the water was absolutely filthy.
I can't wait to get home to start setting up home.
It looks like we have made it. We've just heard that contracts have been exchanged, with a completion date of next Tuesday (16th). I've booked the van, and I'm waiting to hear that we have dispensation to park outside both properties for the day.
It's been a long haul, and incredible to think that we first looked at this property on 3rd September. So - now we know what we are doing for the rest of the week - time to pack :)
Well - we think we are now pretty close to finalising our sale/purchase. We went to our Solicitor on Thursday to sign our various contracts etc. Unfortunately, there are still some bits missing before we can exchange contracts. We had everything we needed except that our mortgage offer had expired (due to the length of time taken to get to this point), and we need a receipt from our landlord, to whom we pay ground rent. We've now got the confirmation from the bank on the mortgage front, but we still don't have the receipt.
Without this receipt we can't exchange (otherwise we could find ourselves in breach of contract apparently - and this would be a bad thing). As our landlord has proved difficult to get hold of, this is a bit of a worry.
We also had a bit of a panic when Damyanti's name came up in a bankcruptcy check. Seems a bit unreliable to do this kind of check by name (Damyanti Patel not being exactly an uncommon name), but I think she managed to convince our solicitor that she had never lived at the relevant address, and never had a credit card (why this second piece of information was important I don't know). This also seems a bit of an odd way to do it (Solicitor:'Your name has come up in a bankcruptcy check'; Damyanti:'Oh - that can't be me, I've never been bankcrupt'; Solicitor:'That's OK then')
After we have exchanged, it will take a minimum of 5 working days to get to 'completion' - the day when all the money goes through, and the whole deal is done. So we are currently hoping that we might get the receipt on Monday or Tuesday. We could then move on the 15th or 16th. Unfortunately I'm at the UCISA Conference from the 17th-19th, so if we don't exchange on Monday or Tuesday, that pushes the completion date back to 22nd March at the earliest.
Having signed the contracts it does all feel like it is going to happen now, and although there is obviously still potential for problems, we decided we would start packing, hoping this wasn't tempting fate. We've packed all our books, CDs, DVDs and Videos (16 boxes worth altogether). I've taken down the shelves we are taking with us, and taken the pictures down in the bedroom.
We are lucky working in a library - loads of boxes just hanging around waiting to be used!
We've also phoned a couple of van hire places to check prices and availability. I made friends with Charles at Practical Car and Van Hire, and although they are a bit more expensive, I suspect we will use them (since we have a personal recommendation from some friends as well).
We were meant to be going to Bolton this weekend, but as we drove to work on Friday, the car overheated, and we had to pull over to wait for it to cool off, and top it up with water. Although this was almost certainly because we had to sit in almost stationary traffic for ages, I didn't want to try driving 350 miles straightaway (although the car made it back to Twickenham without a problem). This was a shame, as Damyanti's Dad was looking forward to us coming up, and was disappointed we couldn't make it. However, we will still go up before we go to the States.
I tried to book the car in for a service today just to get it checked out, but none of the places I tried seemed to be open - so I guess that will have to wait until Monday now.
We are starting to make lists of 'things to do'. We did borrow a book from the library to help us, but it wasn't much help. For a start, it was last revised in the late 90s, and (perhaps still suprisingly) suggested doing everything by post or telephone (how did we cope before the Internet?). It also was (not suprisingly) aimed at people moving a bit further than 0.4 miles. So, a lot of advice about a 'survival' kit (which, for some reason, included a hoover - which hardly seems like a piece of fundamental survival equipment to me), and calculating if you need an 'unlimited mileage' van hire, which didn't seem very relevant!
I'm sure there is a handy website now that lists this kind of thing anyway.
So, a busy weekend. Where we have taken stuff off the walls, there are now holes which need filling, and I guess we'll need to re-paint (I seem to remember somewhere we are obliged to 'make good' any damage made by removing shelves etc, but I'm not quite clear on how much we have to do). Anyway, the advantage of starting packing today means we have time to tackle these little jobs.
Hopefully on Monday we will have a definite move date, but I guess that we may find that it is actually going to take just that little bit longer (it always does), and so we will end up moving on 22nd March. I'm hoping that this isn't the case at the moment, but realistically (or pessimistically), I think it will be.
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